Monday, October 27, 2008

Oral Sex

Is it allowed as a Muslim couple to have oral sex and specify touching the husband's private parts?


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When we're talking about a successful marriage, we have to admit that making love and sex (or whatever you want to call it) is a big part in/for contribution to the success of your marriage and Allah (SWT) made the woman to be a shelter for the man and the man to be a shelter for the woman. So if the shelter is not going to serve the purpose of being a shelter, you know you are going to try to find another shelter. And according to the book of Allah and the authentic Sunnah of Rasool Allah (SAW) that Allah (SWT) and His Messenger (SAW), they did not make any relationship between the husband and the wife haram (forbidden) except two and this is:

#1 Having intercourse during the time of menses.

#2 Having intercourse in the anus.

Other than this in my personal opinion and my humble understanding of al-Islam, anything that the man do with his woman and the woman do with her man is lawful.

Some, some scholars they have said that this is haram. And the only reason is that because there is impurity can come from the penis of the man in the woman's mouth and they are talking about what you call medee. But, this does not have to be in all conditions. What about if a man, you understand, did not have medee. Or that the woman while ... so there is something you can go around this.

So in my personal opinion to make a long story short, that oral sex is okay and Allah knows best

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